Be Humble

You would think someone with a 'Be Humble' tattoo on their foot would have no trouble remembering to do just that. But sometimes God has to put you in check because as the saying goes, familiarity breeds contempt.

On Sunday, my pastor preached about faith. I was deeply touched by the message. I can't remember exactly what he preached, but I just know that I felt sooo convicted. It was like the very Word of God was cutting away at my sinful attitude. It was painful. I hate disappointing God. Even though I had good intentions when I shared my products or business opportunity, I still had a healthier than though or more educated than though subtext in my presentation.

Since I joined 'It Works!', I've been very excited about the possibilities that extra income can create. But there is a big difference between conveying excitement and being boastful. Sadly, I had adopted the very attitude I despised in other people when I was apart of another network marketing company. I bash regular jobs on my various social media pages, judge others for being so close minded, brag about how I'll be retired in a few years, etc. 

But sometimes I forget that I once had a regular job....actually several jobs. Those jobs helped pay my bills and get me through school . Even when I wasn't happy about them, which was 99% of the time, I still went to work because I needed the income. And prior to finding 'It Works!', I was on Craigslist, looking for a part time job to appease my need to produce income.

I mean it's only a few days later, but I have changed my attitude. I believe God will lead me to the people who will benefit from this type of business and the products offered. I'm also accepting the fact that some people actually like, or even love, their job. Beyond that, people need jobs to survive. Everyone isn't cut out to be a Warren Buffett. 

"God opposes the arrogant but gives grace to the humble."  James 4:6

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The Great Friends & Money Debate

I have been contemplating whether or not I was going to publish this post for the last few days. I have obviously decided that I should. Maybe my experience will help someone else in their business.

Last week I wrapped a few of my church members at a bbq. That was exciting because I really had no intentions of doing so. It gave me a feeling of accomplishment because when you join a network marketing company most people are skeptical and doubtful,especially the people closest to you. Since we had an impromptu wrap party, the ladies told me they'd pay me for the wraps on Sunday. Cool Beans. I had no problem with that.

On Saturday night I kept debating with myself about whether or not I should send a reminder text since it had almost been a week, and I know people have busy schedules. For me this was strictly business. I thought about all of the other times I had been so timid about money matters when I was a part of another network marketing company. I hated dealing with money and felt like it was a turn off for customers when you approached them about their balance. But I need to change that mentality in order to succeed.

I told myself that since this is a business I decided to build, I need to realize that money comes with the territory. I wasn't going to allow my discomfort with approaching people about money, stop me from building my dreams. So I waited until Sunday morning and sent a general text to everyone reminding them to bring their money to church. Boom! Message sent, I felt like a grown woman handling her business.

I received a text from one of the women that really hurt me. I think I was more hurt because I knew my intentions weren't to offend anyone, especially this particular woman who I consider a good friend. This was the main reason why it had taken me so long to send the text. No lie, I almost didn't go to church because I felt so distraught over the fact  that she'd think I didn't trust her or that I was hounding her for money.

I kept questioning whether I really did something wrong. That's the conflict when it comes to friends and business. I was thinking in terms of my business and how I need to ask for what is owed just like any other business person. Her mindset was, if we're friends you shouldn't feel the need to ask me for money because I haven't given you a reason not to trust me.

The whole thing sucked! I did call her on Monday and apologize. We had a short discussion about it and that was that. I'm thankful for the learning experience but I'm even more thankful that I didn't lose a friendship over it.

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Wrap Star in the Making

This has been an amazing day! Matter of fact it has been an amazing week!!

Today I had a one on one with a young lady my husband referred to me. We met at a local Starbucks to see if this business would be of interest to her.

One thing I love about this business is the freedom it gives me to be myself. I didn't feel like I had to put on airs or act like I was more successful than I am. I didn't feel like I looked less professional because I wore my hair in an afro. I wore jeans and one of my fave Old Navy shirts. I was comfortable and I was me. 

Another thing that made me fall more in love with this business is the comfort level I had with taking my little princess to the meeting with me. I had originally planned to have a babysitter, but it didn't work out. Thankfully the meeting was at 11:30am, which is nap time for her. 

Having her there with me gave me more confidence and helped me convey my passion in a way that I would have been nervous to do otherwise. I mean, my baby girl is my primary reason for building this business so I think it was good to have a visual for my prospect and myself as I expressed my desire to be debt free and achieve financial freedom to insure my daughter had a future with no limits.

The meeting went well. The young lady was very interested in the business and will become one of the first distributors to sign up under me. Yaaay! 

I'm very excited about this month. Last month was basically my training month, but now it's on! I am ready to party...Wrap party :) Business is Boomin!

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