Be Humble

You would think someone with a 'Be Humble' tattoo on their foot would have no trouble remembering to do just that. But sometimes God has to put you in check because as the saying goes, familiarity breeds contempt.

On Sunday, my pastor preached about faith. I was deeply touched by the message. I can't remember exactly what he preached, but I just know that I felt sooo convicted. It was like the very Word of God was cutting away at my sinful attitude. It was painful. I hate disappointing God. Even though I had good intentions when I shared my products or business opportunity, I still had a healthier than though or more educated than though subtext in my presentation.

Since I joined 'It Works!', I've been very excited about the possibilities that extra income can create. But there is a big difference between conveying excitement and being boastful. Sadly, I had adopted the very attitude I despised in other people when I was apart of another network marketing company. I bash regular jobs on my various social media pages, judge others for being so close minded, brag about how I'll be retired in a few years, etc. 

But sometimes I forget that I once had a regular job....actually several jobs. Those jobs helped pay my bills and get me through school . Even when I wasn't happy about them, which was 99% of the time, I still went to work because I needed the income. And prior to finding 'It Works!', I was on Craigslist, looking for a part time job to appease my need to produce income.

I mean it's only a few days later, but I have changed my attitude. I believe God will lead me to the people who will benefit from this type of business and the products offered. I'm also accepting the fact that some people actually like, or even love, their job. Beyond that, people need jobs to survive. Everyone isn't cut out to be a Warren Buffett. 

"God opposes the arrogant but gives grace to the humble."  James 4:6

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Choosing Victory Over Defeat

I'm Baaaack! I've been really busy since the last time I posted. Let's see....My little family flew to Philly on the 16th to visit my mother & siblings. It was a very interesting trip. Persia did very well on both flights, for which I am beyond thankful since I had to go it alone on the ride back.

My initial thoughts for this trip were: leave the kid with grandma, sleep, eat and sleep some more. But that was before I joined this business. I wanted to make sure I took advantage of any opportunity I had to get the word out about my products. So I scheduled a wrap party at my mom's place. I was also able to meet with my coach and friend, Bonita. The day we flew in my husband and I went to her beautiful home for dinner and training. 

Throughout the week I made calls, sent texts, e-mailed, etc to confirm my guests for my wrap party. I really didn't want to disappoint Bonita because she was willing to come help me, even though she was getting back from vacation the day it was scheduled. So many people bailed on me, but that's why you over invite. 

On the day of the party, I swear it seemed like everything and everyone was against me. I really wanted my mom to be there but she had to work until 7pm. A few more people called and cancelled, then there were others who just didn't show up. The internet was turned off. There were several block parties around the neighborhood that blocked off major streets and caused a lot of confusion. My siblings waited until 4:30pm to begin cleaning and my party started at 5. Everything was just crazy! 

But I had 2 guests show up, along with Bonita and they both became loyal customers. One of my guests tried the crazy wrap and she lost 2 inches around her waistline in one hour!!! That excited all of us. So everything worked out. 

If I wasn't passionate about this business I would've just quit and let my frustration deter me, but I have found that when I am most frustrated, is when I am the closest to an accomplishment. That frustration is the thin line between victory and defeat. Nothing worth having comes easy. I appreciate my minor setbacks much more now. They are an important part of the journey.

"And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them."

(Romans 8:28)

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Lesson Learned

So today I was supposed to have my first 'wrap party.' That didn't quite work out. No one showed up, but I am confident that I will still be a successful Wrapstar. I blame my poor marketing for this defeat. You can't expect people to jump at an opportunity when they only have a 3 day notice, no personal contact from me (FB isn't personal), and very little knowledge about the product. So I will definitely make sure I am on my p's and q's next go around.

So what did I do with the time I set aside to wrap away the fat lol? I did what any smart business owner would do. I worked!! After I ate some ice cream of course...I'm only human :) I journaled a bit because I wanted to rid myself of any negativity. I had to admit to myself that this was poorly planned and I need to take better control of my business. Then I reminded myself that since I want this to work I need to continue taking the necessary steps that will allow me to become successful. Last, I reassured myself that God would not plant dreams, goal, and desires in my heart that HE isn't willing to fulfill.

After journaling I called a few people who showed interest in my products and possibly becoming a fellow/lady business builder. Had some great conversations. Moved on to my weekly conference call, where I was commended by my upline for showing leadership by sharing this business with others, even when I didn't have product (ego boost).  Then I made that dreaded call to my mother, because I never want her to feel like I am hounding her. But the thing is, a lot of my motivation for success comes from my desire to help her financially when I am able. I don't think asking her to spend $33/mth is too bad. Give and it shall be given, right?

Now I'm sitting here blogging, waiting for my husband and daughter to return home with some french fries for this hungry momma. Guess that means I need to take a fat fighter!

Today was good but tomorrow will be great! Lesson Learned.

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